Want Success ? Build Character And Integrity

By Keith Meloche | February 26, 2008
by Keith Meloche

Without character, the puzzle of achieving success falls apart. It is most important of all pieces to life's puzzle. Without character, you can make money. But it will be worthless to you and to those around you. Look out in the world today: drug dealers and con artists have money-but they lack character.

If you want a legacy of honesty as you age then don't let lack of character mar your hard work in achieving success. People may well pity you and this can cause you to become less than you were intended to be.

If you have character--it follows that you have integrity. Integrity means that you do the right things at all times--no matter who may be watching you. If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear. This comes by having your integrity intact. Maintaining these two companions means you'll reach your goals much easier.

To put it in practical terms--You will put the golden rule into work at all times. Some people will step on other people to get what they want; climbing the corporate ladder on the shoulders of others. With character and integrity, you will treat people with respect and dignity. You will treat others in the way that you expect to be treated.

"Doing the right thing" will be your motto in the office, even if it isn't welcomed or appreciated. You may be the only one acting this way--but you'll find that it will move you beyond your present position--to a bigger and better place. Your integrity will be appreciated by others when this happens.

If you have character, you will realize that the most important things in life are not at the office or at work. Family and responsibility to that family are most important. Having character means you will not sacrifice them to "finish this project" or "get that done". When your child asks you to play catch, you won't say; "Maybe next time".

Character shines through when you put your family ahead of your work. Purposefully scheduling time for them (and keeping the appointments) will show your true character and integrity. You can "date" your spouse and play with your children,making you see why you got married in the first place. The example you set will be something your family will be proud of.

As you consider character, it's most important to remember that your children will grow up to be just like you. As said once by John Maxwell: "We teach what we know: we reproduce who we are". Having a life full of integrity and character will make you reproduce the same traits in your children as you climb the ladder to success. And isn't that really what it's all about ??

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